Something About Rusty
I am a woman of color of a certain age – more than 40, slightly less than 60, who is recreating and starting her life over. Divorced, and now learning to express myself in different ways with pen, keyboard and new experiences, the journey is bitter sweet.
Being in a long distance relationship (separate countries) with a quiet, gentle – but steady dominant gentleman – I have decided to create a blog-journal of my longings for him, my fantasies, and tender memories of sore bottoms from the distant past. It makes waiting for the next visit less painful (in the heart).
What I write here is a combination of fact, fiction, fantasy and frolic … it is up to you to decide what you think is what. In my writing, I will sometimes refer to someone as “My Daddy.” He is NOT my father; not a father figure; nor anyone’s father – it is a term of endearment I’ve adopted for my dominant love of my life. Any reference to “Baby Girl,” is NOT a child, infant or minor … it is simply what “My Daddy” may or may not call me from time to time. Are we clear on that?
Rusty Nale 2 
March 28, 2011 at 12:20 pm
Hi Rusty,
I fell across your site after a tag for it popped up. Quite honestly it was the picture that attracted my attention no surprises there? (it was the one with the bath) then I read the blog which was just so sad.
But I read more and should like to congratulate your on your writing which I enjoyed. So much so that I did purchase your book.
Congratulations and I look forward to reading of your happiness.
Bryan
March 28, 2011 at 1:58 pm
Hi, Bryan – First, thank you so much for stopping by my (new & improved blog) – my original one is on blogspot, but I felt the need to move over here. But, I especially appreciate that you liked my writing enough to purchase Burning Willow. I hope you like it, as it’s my first attempt at this … I’m working on a new one, and a few short stories and novellas – but some will be posted here, as well.
Again, I appreciate your visit and your feedback. Have a great week!
RUSTY
May 28, 2011 at 12:18 pm
Rusty Nale, I once used to date a beautiful ebony lady like you. About the same age as you. She was a university professor of psychology, here in New York City. I knew her for about three years, and we spent many a night together dancing our care’s away away. Yes, of course I miss her.
May 28, 2011 at 4:15 pm
Used to be my city fair … long, long ago … But, that’s not me in the photo (did you think it was)? While I am a woman of color – I don’t compare to her in any way.
May 28, 2011 at 11:09 pm
Wait a minute, Six … I said that was not me … what picture are you referring to? I may have been mistaken.
May 30, 2011 at 9:00 am
Rusty Nale. My dating a beautiful ebony professor, is a true story. Although she was NOT, into spankings, she did see me in an ‘off broadway show’, doing my spanking specialty, of warming a lady’s bottom.
May 30, 2011 at 10:38 am
I did not say it was not a true story; no reason to think otherwise. Tell me – was it difficult for her to watch you – knowing that was in you, but was not in herself? And, this has bothered me for a long time – is it common for dominant men to settle into relationships with women who are not sexually submissive – and why? I know it’s a stupid question, because me, as a submissive has done the same over the years – But, now I have met men (it’s easier these days because of the Internet, etc.) who are supposedly on the same page as myself. I’m not sure what my question really is, but do you think watching your scene was hard or arousing for her – at all?
May 30, 2011 at 7:50 pm
Since this lady was a psychology professor, she understood that all of us have in life, be it men or women, have many different fantasies, and fetishess in our lives. She told me mine was a unique one, and accepted it.
May 30, 2011 at 8:05 pm
That’s good. I don’t know how long ago that was, but I guess when I was a young woman there (early/mid 70’s), that would have been considered unique. But, you know, it’s still considered unique to many.
June 1, 2011 at 1:19 pm
Dear Rusty Nale 2. the world has somewhat grown up, and maybe, because of the ‘internet’, much kinder to us ‘spanko’s and lover’s of fetish behavior. Would you not agree?
June 1, 2011 at 6:51 pm
I do agree. For how would any of us here have found each other and be able to share experiences, dreams, fantasies and other things? Years ago, there were personals – much like online sites – but they were scary. And in truth, a lot of us – not everyone – really didn’t understand the whole thing as it was – we didn’t know what our desires meant, and therefore kept them to ourselves.
June 22, 2011 at 1:44 pm
Not only beautiful, but talented as well
June 22, 2011 at 1:56 pm
The lady is quite pleased with your comment.
February 1, 2012 at 2:57 pm
Hello Nale,
My name is Jack.
I’m the author of a popular guide called “Jack’s Blowjob Lessons” ( you can Google it ), I ran into your blog and I believe that your readers might find my guide valuable.
Please tell me if it is possible to write a guest article on your blog and/or do you write book reviews? If yes, I can send you a copy.
Thanks in advance,
Jack
February 3, 2012 at 8:24 am
Hi, Jack — Well, my blog is strictly about spanking; and some of my readers utilize spanking in a non-sexual manner. While I’m not opposed to your blog, some of them may find it inappropriate for my blog. I have not done book reviews as of yet — Haven’t been feeling well this last year, so I don’t read (or write) as often as I did. Is your book an ebook? Again, if I review it, and it’s strictly about oral sex, it just wouldn’t work here on this blog. So, please give me an idea of what it’s about and I’ll try to get an answer to you before the weekend’s over. Thanks. Rusty